I'm all for competition and any endeavor I participate in, I will try my hardest to win. But cheating and unfair advantage is not allowed. And if I catch a cheater, they will pay the price for cheating, one way or another. And the way I handle insulting comments is to confront the insulter him/herself and not rely on the PC patrol to take care of my sensitivity. No one will stick up for me more than myself. That is called self reliant and pro active.